I have been living a very independent type of lifestyle for a long time. Love is missing but I'm not willing to compromise peace of mind for drama. Would love to be in love but it's never worked for me. I find that a friends with benefits type of relationship is a very good alternative because when you have no expectations, your heart doesn't get broken. Still open to long term if it should evolve in that direction. P.S. I don't understand all the white men contacting me. Isn't this supposed to be an interracial website?